What's wrong with this guy I'm dating?

it could be a lot of things and really he works from3 am and 4 pm and honestly he would be tired. that is a very long time to be up 6 days a week. having said that you are giving yourself away. Ask him one more time to meet after work or something if he say no, then tell him ok. When you are ready to have a real relationship you know here to find me. I wont be driving to your place, a relationship is about 2 people making the effort and i am tired of being the only one doing that. So tell him when you are ready to have a real relationship which is about give and take and describe the relationship you what then let me know but you will not be hearing or seeing me for now.